the idea of putting oil in is simply to ensure a ring seal; it should be in the amount of about a
teaspoon.......so if you put in TOO much; ie so much that the engine wouldn't crank (?!?!!?) I hope you didn't 'fill' the combustion chamber; oil and liquid of course doesn't compress and hydro locking the cylinder can bend and break very expensive parts......
so I HOPE that hasn't happened.
If you have so much that it sprayed out maybe take all the spark plugs out (if they aren't already; you should have them out for cranking the engine anyway) and crank it a number of times to try to get as much oil as possible out.
Fuel pump: it should run so you can hear it; if you are careful you could disconnect a fuel line and run it into a container and test the fuel pump; !BE CAREFUL!; the gas will be under about 35 psi which is a LOT more than you think!!
but you need to make sure it is running reliably. It would be better if you could test it against some kind of flow restriction which is how it normally operates (the injectors and rail) and that would simulate an on-car situation. Fuel filter should give a less intermittent problem; it would load up and restrict flow to everything so the car would generally lose power; not act like this.
The ignition module is a cheap and easy thing to fix and is WELL known for failing; the best advice is to get the GM Delco one; and be aware that they can have sporadic problems; they might not act up all the time.
But this all sounds like something else; I was just covering the easier things.
Let us know how it goes; I am sure it will be an education for everyone.
good luck
gp